There is always a lot said about
relationships, codes of behaviors, comments on what is acceptable and what is
not. Memories also have a big part of it all, both for the good and the bad. Relationships
were always very difficult to me. I now attribute my lack of courage and desire
for perfection to be the source. In any case, I always wondered how some people
could simply start dating someone else after a break-up and live as if the
other was completely forgotten. I am not talking about situations where the
relationship was cut abrupt by one party, leaving unresolved emotions or due
lack of closure, but in cases where the break-up was completely healthy and
friendly. Even so, I always have lingering memories that overlap when seeing
someone else. I will not say they affect me negatively, but they are factors in
my decision-making. To be honest, this is not the case for all the people that
I have met and said farewell. I guess some get left behind, while some may not.
All I know is that I wish to find someone to build a deeper relationship,
allowing my memories to accumulate further and on.
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